Look, I’m gonna say it: We’re all a little ridiculous
I was at a bar in Chicago last Tuesday, watching the Blackhawks game with a bunch of friends. Let’s call him Marcus—he’s the kind of guy who wears his team’s jersey to the grocery store. So, the ref makes a bad call. Marcus stands up, throws his drink (which, honestly, was kinda weak), and starts screaming about committment to the game. I mean, it’s a bar, dude. Chill.
But here’s the thing: we’ve all been there. Sports fandom is a beautiful, messy, emotional rollercoaster. And frankly, I wouldn’t have it any other way.
Why we love to hate
I remember talking to a colleague named Dave about three months ago. He’s a huge Cubs fan, and we were at this little coffee shop on 5th. He told me, “You know, I hate the Cardinals more than I love the Cubs.” I asked him what that even means. He said, “It’s just… yeah. It’s easier to rally around a common enemy than it is to stay hyped about your own team all the time.”
Which… yeah. Fair enough. There’s something cathartic about hating the right team. It’s like, if you can’t love your own team succesfully, you can at least bond over loving to hate someone else’s.
Physicaly and emotionally invested
And let’s talk about the physicaly aspect of fandom. I’m not saying you need to paint your face or anything (though, hey, if that’s your thing, go for it), but there’s something to be said for the way sports bring people together. I mean, have you ever been in a room full of people all watching the same game? There’s this energy, this electric feeling that’s just… it’s magic.
But it’s not just about the energy. It’s about the shared experience. It’s about the inside jokes, the traditions, the stories you tell for years afterward. Like that time my friend Sarah bet her entire vacation fund on the Bears to win the Super Bowl. (They didn’t. She cried. We laughed. It was brutal.)
When fandom goes too far
Now, I’m not gonna sit here and pretend that fandom is all sunshine and rainbows. Because, look, it can get ugly. I’ve seen fights break out over less than a bad call. I’ve seen people trash-talk so hard it’s basically emotional abuse. And I’ve seen people spend way too much money on tickets, jerseys, memorabilia—you name it.
But here’s the thing: that’s part of it too. That’s the yin and yang of sports fandom. The highs are high, and the lows are low. And if you can’t handle that, well, maybe sports aren’t for you.
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A tangent: The beauty of the underdog
So, I was gonna talk about something else, but then I got thinking about underdogs. You know, those teams that everyone counts out, but then they pull off this crazy, amazing, against-all-odds victory? I mean, that’s the stuff dreams are made of. It’s like, against all logic and reason, they just… win. And it’s beautiful.
I remember watching the 2016 World Series. The Cubs hadn’t won in, like, a hundred years. And then they did. And the city of Chicago lost its mind. It was chaos. It was beautiful. It was everything sports fandom should be.
And that’s the thing about sports. It’s not just about the game. It’s about the story. It’s about the journey. It’s about the ups and the downs and the ins and the outs. It’s about the love and the hate and the everything in between.
So, yeah. Sports fandom is a beautiful mess. And I wouldn’t have it any other way.
About the Author
Emma Stone has been a senior magazine editor for over 20 years. She’s written for major publications, covering everything from sports to politics to the occasional celebrity profile. She lives in Chicago with her cat, her dog, and her Blackhawks jersey. She’s not sorry about any of it.
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